The FOCCUS is **not **a test, it’s an instrument. The instrument does not have right or wrong answers. Being honest is essential in whether or. We’re taking the Foccuss prep test this Saturday and I’m really nervous! Should I be?! Help!. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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Not too worried about that part for myself, but I’m really curious what happens when it does! Miss Lilac 8 years ago Wedding: Sign UP with facebook. I think our relationship is pretty good, although there are areas we need to talk about more.

Choose a topic below: If not, can we facilitate having them so that any problems are solved now rather than becoming issues during the marriage. I never had religion shoved qyestions my throat but in DH’s family, it’s expected that you are Catholic and go to church. I had this religion pushed down my throat for years. But we did have to do the CEE weekend catholic engaged encounter.

Well we got our results last night and we have a lot of differences. We get our resuts tonight.

We FAILED Foccus.

Wuestions did you learn in your marriage prep? A D U 7 There are certain behaviors or habits in my future spouse that sometimes annoy me. On some questions like the one about whether quesions worry your in laws will interfer in your married life, I put agree and my h2b put disagree, it was flagged as something we need to discuss which was dumb because we have discussed it and although he asssures me his parents wont, he knows I worry about it.


We discussed ours with our deacon when we were done with it!

I bet they do that so they can have a discussion on the question. To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: October Thanks ChelseaMorning.

Find support, ask questions, swap stories, and follow brides planning real weddings here on Weddingbee. You are commenting using your Twitter account. I am worried that my future spouse will expect me to perform sexual acts that make me uncomfortable. Pre-Marriage Inventory on any personal computer using log-in information provided by their Facilitator.

Sample Questions

Bibliophile is right auestions read carefully. If they are going to interpret your results they should absolutely have the questions on hand so that you can go through item by item—particularly if you answered questios lot of questions with “uncertain.

To make your lives easier, just tell them what they want to hear and discuss the qustions with your FI. So, after you take the test, our church has you meet with an older married couple to go over some of the things that might need to be discussed between you and your partner.

The whole thing taking the test, having it scored, and talking to qudstions priest probably took about an hour. These were in a bar graph showing percentages and there are asterisk questipns each sections so the more asterisk you get the better. They’ll ask you if you agree wo continue your involvment with the church we said YES – neithre of us are involved questiona we agree to continue that You are asked if you agree to raise your kids Catholic we did not You are asked if you understand the church’s position on living together before marriage Also asked several times if pregnancy is a part of your lives at this time.


Why are you trying to marry someone that believes in a church you would say this about? Ours was a scantron-style answer sheet, so they just feed it into the machine. You get a scantron and there were questions in total but you skip the last few parts which they called ‘special parts’.

FOCCUS test — The Knot

I answered Uncertain a lot which quesrions out not to be good. We did pretty well across the board…I believe that we only had questions on the entire test that we ended up discussing because they were flagged and actually on 3 of them, I had misread the question because there were double negatives…tricky! Be prepared to read carefully! I agree that maybe it is the priest that is not a good fit.